How many toads have you kissed in your lifetime?
This is for you guys too.
We know it’s hard to find your princess.
Royalty is in short supply.
How many of you kept kissing the toad thinking eventually it would transform?
I see you nodding your heads.
Of course you did.
We all did.
Some of you may be doing it right now.
Have you ever asked yourself WHY?
Looked in the mirror and asked why you still have a toad, no matter how many times you cover it in kisses?
Maybe you’ve even asked the toad and they say “I’m trying.”
So let’s face this now and together….
Sometimes a toad wants to be a toad
Louder for those in the back..
SOMETIMES A TOAD WANTS TO BE A TOAD!!
No matter how many times you kiss, hug and love someone, change only happens on their terms.
Some of us like kissing toads with no expectation of change.
(Bad boy. Bad girl attraction)
It’s fun, exciting and sometimes becomes permanent.
It’s amazing how relationships bloom.
Food for thought:
We have all been someone else’s toad in life.
What? Me? A toad?
Calm down,
It’s not a bad thing.
We just like being who we are and wouldn’t conform to their idea of the perfect prince or princess.
Being happy is being you.
Being someone you are not to make someone else happy is not healthy to your well being.
Spending time and energy to change someone else will only make you tired.
Some day your prince will come.
He may be running late trying to conform a toad.
Or possibly just wont stop and ask for directions.
But when he does arrive, you will know it.
It may take just one kiss, or a few.
Both of you will feel like royalty.
Because you are.
Patience my friends.
Love Big
Lorene