I need my me time.
I’ve had some this week, but no time to write. I wrote several in my head, while driving, cooking, catering. Just no time to put it down on paper, so to speak.
Believe it or not, some mornings I can’t think of a single thing to write about. I never want to be negative, and if I don’t have anything nice to say I try to stay quiet.
There are so many negative things out there. Maybe I should point out the “bright side” of things.
The silver linings.
I scroll past negative posts, not stopping to comment.
I honestly believe there are people who enjoy being unhappy and love a drama filled life.
They thrive on people jumping on board to hate on whatever is happening.
Drawing more negativity their way.
I do love when I see a “keep your chin up, it could be worse” response. Those will make me stop and read a few more.
Those are the friends you should surround yourself with. The ones that point out the good in a situation. The ones that will not sit in your pity puddle with you, but point out a step in either direction is drier and happier.
If you don’t like where you are, MOVE.
You are not a tree.
Pulling people into your puddle will only push them away. Non stop moaning and complaining is not an attractive quality.
Think about it, are you one of those people? Notice your circle getting smaller? Fewer responses to your drama?
Self inflicted Darkness can be exhausting to those around you. The pity you seek just feeds it. Attention, good or bad is what you desire. Start by giving yourself some good attention.
Put out there all your accomplishments, happy moments. Celebrations with friends have more power to fuel your happiness than pity.
You will find strangers watching you and feeding off the energy you produce.
Be the light people seek.
Blaze a way through the darkness where others can follow.
You have it in you. Don’t let anything push your light down deep. Draw it out and share it. I’ll read every word of it, and soak up some of that positive energy myself.
Have a fantabulous day!
I hope to read and hear about all your happiness today!
I love you!
Love big
Lorene
