Another day in paradise.
Well, my paradise.
I wake up next to someone that loves me. He must if you know anything about me. I can be a little difficult at times. I call it independent. It’s taken a few decades to realize how relationships should be.
The joy of being with someone is you WANT to, not NEED to.
When I was young, it was find a nice boy, get married, have babies….well, I did all that backwards lol. I learned to take care of me and mine. The freedom that gives you is amazing.
You are more observant of how you are being treated, you don’t tolerate unhappiness for fear of being alone.
You like your own company.
When you choose a partner because you love their company and they compliment and complete you, not take care of you financially the difference is world changing.
Love yourself first. Respect who you are. Be self sufficient in all ways before inviting someone to share that with you.
Let them be your partner, supporter, cheerleader and lover. You be the same for them.
Life will be paradise.
Lorene 2019